If I send you the cremated remains in the urn, will you send it back to me? April 13, 2021 20:32 Updated Yes! We will return your urn if requested. Related articles Can you split my solidified remains and ship to multiple family/friends? Do they breakdown in water? I don’t feel comfortable sending them in the mail. How do you ship remains? The cremated remains are split between family members. Can we ship separately?