If I send you the ashes in the urn, will you send it back to me? September 22, 2019 20:30 Updated We will return the urn for an added shipping charge. You will be able to choose this option during the checkout process. Related articles Can you split my Solidified Remains and ship to multiple family/friends? I don’t feel comfortable sending them in the mail Do they breakdown in water? The ashes are split between family members. Can we ship separately? Do you ship internationally?