Can you split my solidified remains and ship to multiple family/friends? April 30, 2020 17:33 Updated Unfortunately not, but we are happy to send extra boxes for you to distribute the solidified remains to your family. Related articles Do you ship internationally? If I send you the ashes in the urn, will you send it back to me? How hard are they? What do you add to the ash? I don’t feel comfortable sending them in the mail.